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LW's avatar

Thank you, that is reassuring.

Pierre Grou's avatar

I'm amazed at the clarity of your perception of this entire process and just as much at your delicate mastery of powerful words. Thank you Imogen. 🙏🏼♥️

Imogen Webber's avatar

Thank you Pierre, that means a great deal. 🙏

LW's avatar

My experience of grief seems the closest I have come to what you describe and focusing on Presence the most helpful response. But here you are talking about no agency whatsoever. Truly terrifying.

Imogen Webber's avatar

Yeah…. truly terrifying to the part of us that needs to remain in control. And yet what I've found is that the actual experience of surrender, when it finally comes, is nothing like the terror that preceded it. The terror belongs to the separate self, the one who believes it will be annihilated if it loses its grip. What meets you on the other side is something closer to a sense of coming home.

Burnt Eliot's avatar

"There is a deeper gravity than the ambition of becoming."

It seems to me there is something similar, an older memory than the memory of any thing, the unforgettable memory of letting go. It patiently waits until distractions subside.

Imogen Webber's avatar

"An older memory than the memory of any thing." Totally! Something in us already knows the terrain intimately, sometimes without even realising it… which is perhaps why the descent, when it comes, feels less like annihilation and more like recognition or remembrance. Thank you for your thoughtful comment. 🙏

Mairead's avatar

Beautiful

Imogen Webber's avatar

Thank you Mairead 💜

Travis Sanders's avatar

Wow! I know words can never touch the ultimate truth but you do a very good job of pointing within the limitations of language. Amazing post

Imogen Webber's avatar

Thank you Travis. I was amazed by this one reading it back too... somehow the moment was ripe to capture that which has eluded me before. 🙏